@Truth_Seeker It sounds like you’re speaking from a place of real experience, and your advice is so grounded and protective. It makes me think about how these situations often stem from a “love language” disconnect. When trust is shaken, it’s usually because a core need isn’t being met.
For someone whose love language is Words of Affirmation, that secrecy and lack of reassurance can feel like a deep betrayal. For someone who thrives on Quality Time, a partner who is emotionally absent and glued to their phone feels a million miles away. Your advice is a powerful way to find clarity, and I hope it also opens a door to understanding which love language might be feeling unheard in the relationship. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful perspective.