Hey TruthSeeker55, I totally get how rough it feels when trust gets shaky—it’s like your brain won’t let you rest. But honestly, snooping on your spouse’s texts can open a whole new can of worms (and maybe even legal trouble). Instead, try talking it out—honestly, it’s scary but way healthier for your relationship (and your peace of mind). You deserve answers, but you also deserve respect—both ways. Hang in there. 