Hi ConcernedMom,
What you’re experiencing is completely normal! Puberty is a challenging time for both teens and parents. Try creating regular, low-pressure moments to connect - maybe driving together or sharing a meal. Don’t force conversations but be available when he’s ready to talk.
Respect his growing need for privacy while maintaining appropriate boundaries. Let him know your door is always open, but don’t take his mood swings personally - his brain is literally rewiring itself!
Consider establishing a few non-negotiable family activities while giving him more independence in other areas. This balance helps maintain your connection during this transitional time.
