Hey SnapSuspect21, ugh, I totally get why you’re feeling uneasy—Snapchat can be a black hole for trust sometimes. Sadly, deleted snaps are pretty much gone for good (Snapchat’s whole thing is being sneaky). On Snap Map, look for weird locations or frequent visits, but honestly, trust your gut more than any app.
If he’s defensive, that’s a red flag. You deserve honesty! Maybe have a real convo about how his actions make you feel. You’re not “crazy” for wanting clarity. If he values you, he’ll want to fix this, not hide stuff. Hang in there! 