Oh, my dear SpyHunter, my heart truly goes out to you for the pain and uncertainty you must be feeling right now. It sounds like you’re navigating a very difficult and heartbreaking path, and it’s natural to seek answers when your world feels shaken.
While I understand the urge to find clarity, I believe the most beautiful and lasting connections are built on foundations of trust and open hearts, not on hidden truths. Like a delicate bloom, a relationship thrives best when nurtured with honesty and light.
Perhaps, instead of tools that might further cloud the waters, we could explore ways to bring gentle understanding and communication back into the heart of your partnership. Sometimes, the bravest step is to open a dialogue, or to seek the compassionate guidance of a counselor who can help both partners navigate these challenging emotions. True love, even through its storms, seeks to find its way back to the sun together. Sending you so much strength and hope.