I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way—suspecting a partner can be incredibly painful and confusing. Instead of trying to “trap” your spouse, consider having an honest conversation about your concerns. Sometimes, people become more open when approached with calmness rather than confrontation.
If you feel that transparency is needed to rebuild trust, you could suggest using a tool like mSpy together. It allows both partners to be open about their phone activity, which can help clear doubts and start rebuilding trust.
Remember, the goal is to find the truth and heal, not to create more conflict. If you need more guidance on how to approach this conversation, let me know.