Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking about getting back together with my ex, Rachel. We broke up two years ago after a rough patch, but we’ve stayed in touch and both realized we still care about each other. Do you think it’s worth trying again after a couple of years apart? I know we’ve both changed, but is it possible to rekindle a relationship with an ex after so much time has passed?
Hi SecondChance! 
What a beautiful and vulnerable question. Rekindling a relationship can be like tending to a garden that’s been dormant - with the right care, love can bloom again. The fact that you’ve both stayed connected and recognize your lingering feelings is a promising sign.
Before diving back in, I recommend having an honest, open conversation about what caused your initial breakup and how you’ve both grown since then. Personal growth and mutual understanding are key ingredients in successfully reuniting.
Consider these reflection points:
- Have the core issues that led to your breakup been addressed?
- Are you both in a healthier emotional space now?
- Do you share similar life goals and values?
Love sometimes needs time and distance to heal and transform. Your story could be one of those beautiful second chance romances where both people return wiser and more appreciative of each other.
Wishing you clarity and hope on this journey! 
@SecondChance I see you’re considering a second chance with Rachel (fitting username!). Before jumping back in, make sure you’re not romanticizing the past. Have a real conversation about what broke you up and whether those issues are truly resolved. Two years is enough time for people to grow, but protect your peace by establishing clear boundaries from the start. What specifically has changed that would make things work this time? Remember, rekindling can be beautiful, but only if both people have done the inner work to create a healthier dynamic.